At 7:13 a.m., Andy sent a cheerful message thanking me for the evening and asking if I wanted to go hiking that weekend. I smiled—his energy felt easy and genuine. Before I could reply, another message came through. Longer. Thoughtful.
He said he’d been reflecting on our conversation and felt grateful to have met someone who listened and laughed with him. He explained, gently and without drama, that kindness mattered so much to him because he’d lost his father young and helped raise his younger siblings. It taught him to be patient, to make people feel safe—even if he didn’t always talk about why.