My mother-in-law tried to call me out—my husband set the record straight.

The manila envelope slid across the mahogany dinner table with a sound like a dry intake of breath. It was a heavy, utilitarian thing, out of place among the bone china and the silver-plated candle snuffers. My mother-in-law, Patricia Atwood, didn’t look at me. She kept her gaze fixed on her son, my husband Mark,  with the practiced intensity of a high-court judge delivering a final verdict.