PART 3: Sixteen minutes before my wedding, my sister texted me: “Relax. NOBODY’S COMING. We’re going to my engagement dinner instead.

Then she said, “Emma, how much money have you given them over the years?”

I swallowed.

“I haven’t added it all up.”

“Add it.”

So I did.

It took two nights.

When the final number appeared in the spreadsheet, I stared at it until my eyes burned.