I bought my parents a $425,000 seaside mansion for their 50th anniversary, but when I arrived, my mother was crying and my father was shaking.

My mother cried again, but it was a soft, cleansing release.

The following week was not dramatic, but it was incredibly practical.

That was what real protection looked like after the shouting finally stopped.

I had the locks replaced, the security code changed, and high-definition cameras installed at the driveway and the porch.