After the cr3sh, the doctor said I needed urgent surgery, but my husband held another woman’s hand and muttered, “She’s always been fragile.”

“For three years,” I said, “I was asked to understand everything. Natalie needed Dominic on my anniversary. Natalie felt lonely at Christmas. Natalie was scared of storms, hospitals, parties, and even me. I understood so much that I nearly disappeared. On the day of the accident, they asked me to understand again. But this time, they wanted me to give up more than time, money, or dignity. They wanted me to give up my life.”