My in-laws used my pool for years without ever asking. But when I requested to borrow a tent, my brother-in-law laughed and said, “Buy your own. We’re not helping you.”

Sarah and I had not taken a vacation in two years.

I booked five days near Yellowstone.

We reserved flights, a campsite, and two nights at a small lodge to end the trip. I planned moderate trails and enough quiet time to remember why we had chosen each other.