On our wedding night, my husband’s friends suggested a game called “Recognize the Bride.” Blindfolded, he walked right past me, took my maid of honor’s hand, and said, “This is my wife.” Then he kissed her in front of more than thirty guests. I didn’t argue. I pulled out my phone, because one recording was about to prove that none of it had been a mistake.

Savannah turned to him, her eyes wide with fear as she whispered his name, but he snapped at her to keep her mouth shut, which confirmed everything I needed to know.