My daughter and son-in-law abandoned me at my wife’s grave, 190 miles from home. “You’re a burden. Walk home,” he texted. Seconds later, my daughter added, “Don’t wait, Dad.”

I played it for Richard.

“Can she actually do anything?”

“Not without lawful authority,” he replied. “But she’s been collecting medical records and asking questions about guardianship.”

Unease tightened my stomach. Abandoning me at the cemetery no longer seemed like an impulsive punishment. It fitted their effort to make me appear incapable.